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*If you’re sitting on our bench, you remembered.*
I sat down.
The letter was from Tommy.
He had written it only seven months earlier.
He wrote about Australia, his wife, his children and grandchildren. He wrote that he’d spent years imagining the four of us as old men sitting beside the lake. Then came the sentence that stopped me.
*I wish we’d had the courage to ask you why you stopped writing.*
*But if you came back to that bench, maybe I was wrong about you.*
I read it twice.
Stopped writing?
Tommy said the three of them had remained in contact.
Not constantly, but enough.
Christmas cards. Phone calls. Eventually emails.
And apparently my name had never disappeared from their conversations.
For years, they’d wondered what they’d done to make me cut them out of my life.
My stomach tightened.
I opened the second box. Inside was a cheap silver compass. Ray had carried it everywhere when we were teenagers, despite being incapable of reading it properly. Beneath it was a thick bundle of paper tied with string.
Letters.
The first was dated August 1971.
*Dear Harold,*
*Germany is colder than I expected. Tommy says Australia is too hot, so between us we chose badly.*
I smiled, then I saw the final paragraph.
*You haven’t answered my last two letters. Everything okay?*
The next letter was from October.
Then December.
Then March 1972.
*Harold,*
*If you’re angry about something, tell me. Nick hasn’t heard from you either. Tommy thinks maybe your father is keeping you busy at the store.*
Another.
*We miss you, idiot.*
Another.
*Please write back, even if it’s only one sentence.*
I stared at the pages. I’d never seen any of them.
There were copies of 11 letters in that bundle.
Eleven.
I remembered checking the mailbox after work when I was 18.
Then 19.
I remembered pretending I didn’t care.
My father had noticed once. “Waiting for something?”
“No.”
“Those boys have their own lives now, Harold. You should get on with yours.”
Eventually, I had.
At the bottom of Ray’s box was a letter written by his daughter.
*My father kept almost everything from those years, including carbon copies of letters he typed before mailing them. When we found these after his death, I finally understood why he sometimes talked about you with such sadness.*
After his death.
I covered my mouth.
Ray was gone.
He had died three years earlier.
His daughter wrote that one of the last things he’d asked her to do was make sure his box reached the bench if he couldn’t.
I sat there for several minutes before touching Nick’s box.
I almost didn’t want to open it.
Lying across the top was a photograph of an old pocketknife.
I knew it immediately. The four of us had used that knife to carve our initials into the bench.
Underneath it was another bundle.
But these weren’t letters to me. They were copies and originals Tommy, Ray, and Nick had exchanged with one another over the years, gathered together for me.
One from Tommy in 1973 mentioned me.
*Maybe we should stop bothering him. If Harold wanted us in his life, he would answer.*
Nick had replied.
*I don’t understand it. He was the one crying when we left.*
Another, years later: *Do you think we did something?*
And finally, from Ray: *I think we have to accept that Harold doesn’t want us anymore.*
I lowered the page.
For 55 years, I’d believed exactly the opposite.
They hadn’t abandoned me.
They thought I’d abandoned them.
***
I was still trying to understand how we’d all been so wrong when a shadow fell across the letters.
I looked up.
Two young men and a woman were standing several yards away.
The older man stepped forward. “Harold?”
“Yes.”
He smiled, but his eyes were wet.
“I’m Oscar. Tommy’s son.”
The woman beside him introduced herself as Ray’s daughter, Anna.
The younger man was Nick’s son, Luis.